I am 42, dark hair and fair skin, 5'9" , 175 lbs, green eyes, and a naughty smile. Yes, read that height and weight combo again so you don't forget it. I am NOT thin, but I'm not fat either. But I want to be up front, so people know what to expect. I know some people like their women thin, and others like them thick. I don't expect everyone to think I am hot. But I am an honest per, so I want it known right here and now that I'm just average, ok ? Are you ok with that ? Good, then read on. I like girls and guys both, either alone or as a couple, but am currently looking for someone of the male persuasion (there is, of course, the possibility that this will change, so don't hesitate to contact me). I love my live-in boyfriend, but he is rarely interested in me. I'm also looking for people that just want to go out (as friends) and have a good time now and then, as my boyfriend has totally different interests that I do. I am not overly concerned about appearances, but it would be nice to see your face, and NOT just your body, so I know who I'm talking to. If you send me a picture of yourself, I'll gladly send you back one of me. I am your average midwest girl, so I don't pretend to be something I'm not, and I'd appreciate it if you do the same. I don't expect anybody to look like a movie star. I'm honest and open-minded, and expect you to be too. Yes, I am real. I really want to meet people. I have met in per a couple of people from AFF, and have a testimonial from one of them as proof. However, being a real per means I have a real life - a family and job - they take up a lot of my time, so please don't be offended if I do not get back to you right away. I am clean, drug & disease free, and plan to stay that way, so I expect you to respect that. And just FYI: I do like anal, both anal play and anal sex. But it's not something I do with everyone. I'm not going to meet you and beg you to throw it in the back door. I want to be up front about that, so that nobody is disappointed. It's just something I tend to work up to, not the first thing I want ! Although if I'm getting it from behind and you use a finger on me (a well-lubed finger, please)...Oh my...I tend to go through the roof, I love that ! But straight anal - let's work up to it, okay ?

My Ideal Person Some suggestions if you want me to respond to your mail:

- Be original. "Wow, you're hot" is lovely to hear now and then, but tell me about yourself, that is even better.

- I'm more than happy to chat online with you if you want to get to know each other better.

- Be yourself. Like I said, I am real, and I want to meet real people. I may not meet everyone that writes me, and I probably won't sleep with everyone I meet, but being honest gets your foot in the door.

- REMEMBER - I am just a standard member. That means I CAN'T view your pictures, and I can't read your profile. I can write a few people back each day, but that's my limit.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Well, previously I would have said a guy/girl threesome...but
I finally got the chance to try it. And since I'm pretty
open about trying new things, and am not afraid to ask for
what I want, I've really had all my fantasies fulfilled.
Maybe a threesome with two men ? I haven't done THAT
yet !

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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