Hey there, my name is Nicole, I'm a transgender female. I am 29 years old and have been on the hormone therapy consistently since September of 2016. I like to consider myself an intelligent, witty, and fun woman that's been really getting to learn to be myself recently. I still have some struggles here or there, but for the most part I've been feeling solid enough to try to start dating or having some fun these days. I'm a huge submissive, I absolutely love BDSM. I'm rather experienced as well. Collar me and put me on the end of the leash, and I'll do just about anything that's asked of me. I have very few limits, and the ones I do have are all logical. I love pushing the limits and myself in the bedroom. My focus is to please my partner, and I absolutely love indulging people in their fetishes or fantasies. Helping people achieve the things they always dream about but never actually do is one of my biggest turn ons. It's wonderful letting people turn their dreams into reality. I love dressing up in outfits that my partner wants to put me in, the more odd the better hehe. I love roleplaying too, which leads me into my next segment: I'm a huge nerd. Dungeons & Dragons, Warhammer 40,000, computer games- I built my own computer, I love watching science and nature documentaries, and I've been playing computer games about as long as I've been alive. I love to read as well. Anything on cosmology and the universe I absolutely love... string theory, chemistry, even biology and evolution and such. I'm constantly trying to learn and educate myself. I've taught myself how to play guitar and dabbled with drums. I've written plenty of music over the years, which is kind of impressive considering I don't know any music theory and I'm all self-taught. Kind of an innate ability. As for music? I love heavy metal. I'm a huge metal head and it's been one of my favorite genres. I love how diverse and expansive the genre can be, the creativity and the exploration of different sounds across the different bands, especially progressive metal acts or post rock or post metal. I also enjoy a lot of alternative, rock, some ska, electronic music such as the Prodigy or industrial acts like KMFDM or Snake River Conspiracy, all the way to more drum and bass artists such as Hive. I do have a pipe dream of becoming an awesome hip hop performer, I would love to and like to pretend I'm capable of doing it, since writing ties in with poetry and a lot of word play and creativity with the English language. I'm pretty much full time presenting female as a transgender woman. As for passing? I look super cute and play the part like that, although my voice could use some work. The only people I really NEED to pass to is myself and my partner, anyone else I don't care about. I have no problem being myself in public, and I would hope you would have no problem being with me. If you're looking for something more serious, and are just trying to hide me away for your own pleasure, but are too chicken shit to admit you're with a transgirl, please don't bother me. I have to put myself out there and deal with the abuse and prejudice every day to be myself, and if you can't be proud of who you are with, then don't bother if you're going to be a chicken shit coward. If you are messaging me just because you want to go down on me or have me fuck you, please just admit to yourself you're gay and try meeting up with a guy. I'm sure you'll love it once you give it a go. I'm not interested in being anyone's loophole to avoid calling themselves gay even though they just want to bottom with me. Learn to love and accept yourself and the things you're interested in. If me of all people could do it, I'm sure you could learn to as well.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is someone open minded (obviously haha), intelligent, and with a sense of humor that compliments my own. I don't really see age as too much of a deriding factor, as I've met younger folks that are mature and older folks that are childish, I'm just looking for someone that is willing to treat me as the lady I am. Someone that's willing to have fun, and is adventurous enough to explore new avenues.

Now that I've had some time on this site and realized the amount of attention I get here, I realized I can be more demanding what I'm looking for. I am far more interested in a keen intellect and a ravishingly good conversation than just simple bedroom pleasures. Anyone can stimulate me sexually, but not everyone can stimulate my mind. I am far more interested in intellect than looks. You can be Fabio, but if you can't carry a conversation, I'm not interested.

DO NOT EVER USE THE TERM "GURL" TALKING TO ME. I understand cross dressers embrace that term and use it to differentiate themselves from ciswomen, but I'm transgender, and living as female 24/7, I'm just as much a girl as any other one. This is a massive pet peeve and I will stop talking to you using this term with me. I have enough reminders that I'm different.

I want you to be able to take command in the bedroom, I'm highly active and interested with BDSM, and I desire a Dom/sub LTR as an end goal of my time spent here, so any experience or willingness to get into things is a huge bonus. Consistent FWB are also nice, vanilla or otherwise. I'm not looking for one night stands. I'm looking for people I can trust and engage with, physically, mentally, and maybe even emotionally.

If you feel you can fulfill these requirements, shoot me a message, or an email. I'm frequently on messenger and I occasionally cam. I'll have a conversation with anyone, but you have to interest me if you want a second one.

I unfortunately have lost my gold, so unless someone hooks me up with a membership or the site decides to be nice to me, I won't be able to respond to every conversation. I'm also without a cam at the moment, trying to get my hands on one but times are tough and the budget is tight.