Hi we are a couple who are trying to find ways to spice up our sex life. We have had swing experience with another couple before but have stopped After the other couple broke up. We have met single guys and other couples but nothing worked out as yet as either they don't fit wife's liking or the single man are just too eager for the wham bam thank you mam type. Have met single man who are too fast in approach and this has put wife off in a certain way. Currently looking for couples or single man who could hold a conversation and be friends before taking any steps further. We would like to meet up as activity friends first. As the saying goes, untill the woman feels comfortable , nothing will happen.

My Ideal Person Any couples/singles who are willing to try new things. Must be clean and able to keep it discreet. We would prefer people who partys. As we drink and smoke, the other party must not mind. Single males r welcome bt decision lies wit the lady. A nice clean cut gentleman would go into her good books. Single guys who can maintain a good friendship may end up maintaining a sexual one. As we do not want to dissappoint,a face pic would likely get a response.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having group swinging party with drinks n tobaccos.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Sadomasochism, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Food Play, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Fisting

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
NA

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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