We are a committed couple that has been together for over 3 years. We've tried single men and another couple but have yet to find what we are looking for. We are looking for another couple around our own age to enjoy socially and sexually, not just get together and fuck. We are not swingers, nor do we participate in the lifestyle activities and hope to find the same. There should be good chemistry between all of us, strong communication, openness that makes everyone comfortable and allows us all too fully enjoy our time together. We have a moderate D/s relationship, are only interested in other couples that are interested in soft & full swap, with a bi female and/or bi oral or bottom/versatile male (no male kissing). We are HWP, as you can see, and expect the same. No we are not Ken and Barbie, nor is that what we expect or seek from our friends. I, he, travels a great deal for work. We would like to build a friendship with another couple that would allow for her to play with them while he is away, and a couple that is willing to reciprocate when he is home. A couple open minded enough that as our friendship grows there can be times where we all 4 play together or 3 of us play together, rather it be MFM or FMF. We have a nice place in the downtown area that allows us to host in a discreet and comfortable environment. It is centrally located to nice restaurants and places to meet socially, where the crowds are generally in our age bracket.

My Ideal Person Our ideal couple would enjoy socializing as well as having our adult activities, open minded, not pushy and not full time swingers. We are looking for a couple to develop an ongoing relationship with in and out of the bedroom that we share similar interest with.

He travels a lot and is not opposed to the other three getting together in his absence, once a trust is developed. But we also want a couple that is willing to reciprocate when he is in town. Basically you get the pleasure of your wife and her when he is away and there are occasions he gets the pleasure or your wife and her when he is home. But the girls can work that out.

And we all get together when we are available.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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