I am a pre-op who has been on female hormone replacement therapy (hrt) for 2 years. I am a standard member and cannot email or flirt. Pre-op: Transsexuals who have not yet had their sex-change [reassignment] operation(s), but who are working towards it. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. Transsexual (TS): Anyone who (1) wants to have, (2) has had, or (3) should have a sex-change operation. (The third definition is for those in denial.) This word also includes (4) nonsurgical transsexuals (see above). TSs want to appear "convincing as their new selves. Transsexual female/woman: An MTF TS. The medical literature tends to use the extremely demeaning term male transsexual to mean the same thing. Note that one can usually tell the preferred form is in use when the gender word comes after the T. Many women who are new to transwomen posses a variety of misconceptions. First, they often assume she is gay - or will most certainly become that way. In reality, fewer than 20% of all transwomen consider themselves "bisexual" - let alone homosexual. One's sexual "orientation" does not shift easily - if ever. If you're a single woman with an interest in finding a transwoman for sexual gratification - you're in luck. There are perhaps more available hetero tg's than any other category. Your challenge is determining which ones are sexually oriented this way. This is a fair question to ask from the onset of a conversation - and will not result in any anger - if your prospect is not sexually attracted to genetic females. Women who tend to be happiest sexually with a transwoman, usually come from one of two schools - or both. The first is a woman who maintains a strong sense of individuality - and appreciates this characteristic in her dates. She recognizes that she is unique - and likes those facets of her perality which set her apart from the herd. This female is truly one that has - and appreciates in others - a powerful sense of self - and independence. It is unlikely this type of woman will ever find a better match than a transwoman. Why? Because so few men - with their monumental male egos - have ever gone through such a peral odyssey for the discovery of self - than a transwoman. The second type of woman who does well with a transwoman is one who harbors a sense of bisexuality - regardless if they've ever acted upon these desires. Such women get such a complete 2 for 1 bargain package with a girl like us. Nothing like a sale to keep a smile on a gal's face. *Smile* I am very picky. But i'm trying this online dating thing as a last resort because all the attractive women I meet bore me. GUYS...I AM INTERESTED IN MS. RIGHT, NOT MR. WRONG![COLOR red] [B]* NO MEN * NO MEN * NO MEN *[/B][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is wherever the mood strikes.
Sensuality - like touching, candles, and massage - is as important as sex.
One-night stands are great for those who enjoy shallow, no strings sex. I'm not necessarily for it or against it. As I said, I'm very picky!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Van Halen, Whitesnake, Tesla, Boston, Heart, Joan Jett,
Pat Benatar

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Heather Locklear

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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