I am pretty much the girl-next-door, sports mom, average woman that most would be surprised to find on a site like this! While everything is subjective, I selected "ample" from the list to describe myself. So as not deceive any of you, that translates into "extra pounds, not skinny, more cushin for the pushin', bbw, curvy, and most importantly - voluptuous!" I've tried different "vanilla" dating sites, but frankly they bore me. While I'm torn between wanting something real and stable and lasting, my sense of adventure and exploration keeps me searching for that near perfect balance of normal and extraordinarily exciting. I don't have a particular type of man that I am attracted to. I have dated a variety of men, and have basically found that attitude and perality trump physical traits every single time. I've lived enough to know exactly what I want and what I need in my life. I'm not in a hurry, and I can be picky... too picky at times, but I have no rea to settle or make due with convenience. I'm here to make friends at least, and if the chemistry and attraction is there (physical and mental) then possibly more. I have some experience in the swinger lifestyle. Ultimately, finding a partner that I'm able to build a strong foundation of trust and commonality with would possibly lead to fun in the lifestyle if both people are comfortable with that and open to it. If you've made it this far, bonus info: I'm a squirter.

My Ideal Person What I'm NOT looking for is married or attached men! I have no desire to be the "other woman" or a piece on the side. I'm worth much more than that, and don't tolerate being second place. Single men are what I'm interested in, and ones that are close location wise. I appreciate the chance to make new friends around the world, but it's not realistic in the long run. I am also not looking for one night stands, so don't bother. Random sex with strangers is for the younger crowd and I am way past that stage in my life.