I am a professional woman with broad interests, looking for discreet company. I get adequate sex, but what I crave is romance. And that's what I'm not getting. I am witty, attractive (I'm told) and very sociable. I enjoy talking, socializing, laughing and making new friends. Most people tell me that I look much younger than my age. Men in my life have told me that I'm a man's woman, but I love women and like to enjoy couples as well. I am very busty and love to give and receive oral stimulation. I feel I should add a few things as a result of having received a lot of very offensive replies. First, please read all my profile before responding. Second, I'm interested in sex (of course), but I am far more interested in excitement and romance. Don't brag to me about your 8" tool or your magic tongue. Don't tell me how they will be shoved into some part or other of me. Don't inflict on me your fantasies about undressing me, dominating me, inflicting pain or tying me up. Those fantasies may turn YOU on and give YOU a lot of pleasure, but I will conclude that that your goal is use me to live out your own wet dreams. I have gotten literally thousands of "stories" from men who claim to know what I want and what I mean by "romance". They then proceed to tell me what they'll do to me, how excited I'll be and how I'll just become jelly in their arms. Romance is about two people feeling good about themselves and being with each other. It is not about reaching orgasm. Believe me: most men can get a woman to do that. If you don't know the difference between being pleasured and enjoying someone else's company, please don't bother with me. A reply that begins, "I want ..." tells me that what you care about is your desires, not your partner's. So if your real goal is just to get laid, be honest--at least with yourself--save your energy and look elsewhere. Oh yes: I don't need pictures of your erection. I'm sure you can get it up: billions of men can--I know because I've gotten pictures of erections from just about every one of them.[B][/B][COLOR blue][/COLOR] Even though I've made (I think) pretty clear requests, I continue to receive many, many emails blithely ignoring what I've written. Does anyone honestly think that pushing themselves on a woman, or ignoring her stated wishes, is the best approach to winning her attention? If you do, please think again.

My Ideal Person Interesting conversationalists and good lovers, male or female, single or attached. People who understand that a woman needs to be romanced BEFORE she is ready to be intimate. Romance is not a game played to appease a woman. It is not a checklist that you have to fill out so you finally get yours. Rather, it is an atmosphere that two people create together that makes them both feel good about themselves, each other and being together. More to the point, it is what I am after. Sensuality is more important to me than sex. Those who don't understand that distinction, or can't respect it, should look elsewhere.
Elaborate stories about undressing and penetrating a female body may help you masturbate, but they leave me cold. I'm not interested in being tonight's piece of female meat. I have gotten hundreds of stories like this.
Romance demands caring. If you're only interested in your desires, or if you want me to fulfill some fantasy of yours, please: don't contact me. I gladly pay attention to my partner: I love to do that and I love to find out what they want and try to make them feel special. But you also have to care about what I want, and not what you want me to want.

(FYI: You might even go the unheard of extreme of actually ASKING a woman what she wants, how she feels or what would please her, rather than telling her that you know what she wants and it's you. Romance is not a one-size-fits-all kind of thing. It is very individual and takes REALLY caring what the other person wants.)

Finally, because so many still don't seem to get it, I won't be your toy, your beck-and-call girl or your plaything when you suddenly have a free evening. Please don't contact me if you're coming to town for business and want to get laid. Even if you're willing to take me to dinner and hold doors open for me. No self-respecting woman would fall for that sort of line.
Must be disease and drug free.
I am not interested in the multiply tattooed, multiply pierced crowd, or in those who think they're God's gifts to women.