Mid 30's Southern RedHead who loves to have fun. Husband & I are in the lifestyle...To start with, I'm not the Barbie type (even though hubby's name is Ken). I am what you would call in shape with a little to grab on to. I'm 5’ 3” and 175lb with natural strawberry blond hair with the love of life and fun of a teenage girl (and the mind of a person that has a masters degree on top of it). I have been in and out of the lifestyle for almost 10 years now, but am now looking for new friends to go out with and have fun or stay in and have even more fun; only time will tell. I have a active life with work and other commitments that I will not compromise and I keep my private life private and do not mix the two; things work out better that way .I would like to go out sometime just to see if we are compatible together. I'm not in a hurry and do not think twice about taking time to get to know people in person, not to exclude e-mail. The more time we spend getting to know each other the better the comfort level is with me. Not to say if things are going well that I won't jump at a good time, but that all depends on who, what, and where... Well that is about all for now. If I sound like someone you might want to get to know, drop me a line and we'll see what we can get away with. Just a FYI...single men will be associated with on a case by case basis, after a meet & greet with myself and hubby; he must approve before there's any 1:1 interaction. Until then be safe and have fun.

My Ideal Person Someone(s) of a like mind, to be determined upon meeting. Sure we can chat...I have only 1 guideline...any meet & greet we may have after chatting will always include my husband on the first time if not more. More for my safety than anything, he must approve, to also include his peace of mind. If you're cool with that then we can continue; if not, thanks for interest, but then all conversations cease. Absolutely no one under the age of 25, exceptions can be made on a case by case basis. I also do NOT do recreational drugs of any kind, nor will tolerate anyone doing so around me. You also must be able to keep up an intelligent conversation and not be a pretty gorilla, that goes for females too. It's not necessary that you have a college degree, but just keep in mind, I have 2; a BA in History & a MBA.It's always more important to have intelligence & a good attitude, than just a pretty face.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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