No longer on Gold...CAN'T READ MESSAGES, although I enjoy seeing who sent them. Please try to reach me on IM when we're online together. Oh nice...can't even IM without payment. Try rginnley at the ya hoo to reach me. I'm an average married dad in a sexually unsatisfying marriage. Love my SO, and in no way looking to change my status, or anyone else's for that matter. I'm retired military, educated and masculine. I am easy going, drug and disease free and tested on a regular basis. Partners should be as well. Anal requires wrappers...period. Not in this for the kissing/cuddling/rubbing thing with a same-sex buddy. With the women, absolutely! But with the guys, I just enjoy the dick play. Certainly open to play with a non-bi male as a part of a couple - I know how to manage boundaries. After all, it's supposed to be fun for everyone involved.

My Ideal Person Easy-going friend or couple who I could hang out and just have a beer with, regardless of play or not. Searching for a regular discreet friend/couple. Preferably married as well, who enjoys discreet playtime. Not looking for the athlete or the bodybuilder. Be yourself and be comfortable with it. Enjoy voyeur activities as well. Highly turned on by women with a curvy figure, or even if you call yourself a BBW. Confidence in your body and all its imperfections is the sexiest thing any woman can have!
Discretion is a requirement, and you must be drug and disease free and routinely play safe. Must maintain good hygiene. If I'm not online, send a message!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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