We have rules to our open relationship. Rule 1: No drugs or alcohol allowed in this house. Rule 2: My man won't allow you to be alone with me unless he can trust you. Meaning he'll be in the same room while we do anything sexual. Rule 3: The cut off time is 4pm. Meaning you can't come over after 4pm. Rule 4: You need to have a vehicle, because we don't drive. Rule 5: You have to be able to give me (Sara) oral before we do anything else. Rule 6: Absolutely no exceptions to these rules, unless I tell you otherwise. I live with my man. I love him very much. The relationship status says taken, but we're looking for friends with benefits for me. The guy must be in Minnesota. I don't have the money to travel, so relocating is out of the question. The guy must like being watched because my man will be watching. The guy must know how to please a bigger woman, because I'm a bigger woman. If you're not going to make any effort to come see me, then don't bother wasting my time. I have more important things to do.

My Ideal Person I want a man that's compassionate, trustworthy, respectful, truthful, lover of animals, fights for what he wants, never gives up, intimate, easygoing, outgoing, sarcastic, intelligent, can hold a conversation with me, responsible and mature enough to talk about other things besides sex.