Back on Post Covid time and hope to stay that way. Very busy with personal and work matters that limit our ability to meet sometimes. Hope you can understand that and can be patient. Just life happening, as it can and does to anyone here. Doesn't mean we we aren't for real, or aren't sincere. Just makes it hard to keep up some times. We really enjoy just sharing fun times with good wholesome people of many types who understand consensual, discrete, respectful and respectable adult fun. We are attractive according to others (and each other!) but prefer you decide for yourself, as would we) You don't have to be Barbie or Ken. Looks are important, but very personal and there is far more to people than that. Explicit photos are fine, and videos can be hot, but it's nice to see a little more than genitals, and especially nice to see some kind of face photo at some time. IF we are going to meet, we'll see each other's anyway, and if we are going to have fun, certainly going to see each others bodies. A little mystery is fun, but no need to deceive please. Cleanliness, DDF and safe sex are important as they should be for everyone here. Though nothing wrong with a bike ride/hike, and taking a shower before settling down. Kind of sexy actually. Prefer non smoking, or at least don't kiss like an ashtray. Get the idea? Drinking OK but don't let it control you. Now, pot is legal... so same thing. We don't drink much (usually). Prefer not to dull any senses! We don't tend to respond to friend requests. Doesn't mean we aren't friendly. Just sometimes seems like advertising rather than friendships. We expect, and promise discretion. We all have our own lives to live and our special social interests should not interfere with, or threaten that. So we stay with messaging, or switch to (discrete) email. Generally don't text until we feel we have an understanding. Phones are not as "private" for some (like us) as they are for others. In other words, we have family, employees, customers, vanilla friends and one phone each. Don't need to be explaining why someone texts about sexy stuff or trying to explain why there's a big breast on the phone screen. We respect others the same way. Sadly ran into some serious disrespect here a while ago. Enjoy sensual sexual fun, with some emotional, intelligent connection. But not complicated or drama laden, please. NSA/FWB kind of relationships are fine, but might lead to something more. That depends on how we click on other levels. Never opposed to making friends beyond the BR! OK... that said, clandestine, spontaneous combustion, casual sex sounds pretty hot, and have enjoyed that sometimes, too. We do like a little risk now and then. Like playing outdoors, hidden of course. Caution, sensibility, and discretion are a given. Can enjoy 3 somes, 4 somes, full, soft, and small groups with the right people. Have had some club fun. Can enjoy just watching, too. It all has it's place and time. Have had some voyeur/cuckold experiences as well. Nice people who had their own understanding about what they liked together. Groups can be fun. But same guidelines. Kissing is highly underrated or neglected it seems. Lots of ways to "kiss", too. Have to say oral is a favorite, especially giving.... and especially receiving. Just some things that can only be done that way and not any other. . And massage is great, before, during, or after! Even have a portable table. Enjoy the outdoors. A breeze on the body adds an extra element not found in the bedroom (or living room or dining room, or kitchen....or.....) Everyone has to feel consensual and enjoy time together. It's a lot simpler that way. Being Naughty should be fun and feel good for all. Have some kinky experience. A variety of fun stuff. If you have any interest or curiosities, we can talk about it more. And we enjoy toys if you'd like. Even have made some "machines" that can be exciting. But again, not required or expected unless that is what we both/all agree about. Have some bi curiosities for those who are into that but not always, and not required or expected. Just open minded. If we try something and one of us decides we don't like it?? Just scratch it off the bucket list, or find someone else to try it with. We're all different. No need to freak out and get lost in guilt. Plenty to feel good doing. Bottom line? Its all about consensual, discrete, respectful and respectable adult feel good fun. As is often said, and too often not understood, life is short, and meant to be enjoyed.

My Ideal Person TBD Like to chat on line a little, but prefer to meet to find out for real if there is something in the air. Prefer to be casual. Doesn't' have to be a drink or at night. Can be breakfast, coffee, or an ice cream on the bay.
She enjoys dancing. But, OK I (he) have to confess, I wish otherwise, dancing is not a strong point. But I can slow dance pretty well at least. Forgive me!! lol
Respectful, respectable, open minded but not reckless.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
The ones that are enjoyed in the moment

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet

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