Well, it is always hard to describe oneself - but let's just give it a try: Charismatic person who enjoys the fine and funny things in life (for everything else, life is is just too short). Definitely not selfish, more the type of guy who loves to please and take care of others - is there anything better than seeing the sparkle in a persons eyes or a smile on a face because they enjoy being with you??? Addicted to great food (this only works in combination with working out regularly - :-) ..) along with a glass of red wine - all that in a fancy, candle light restaurant with the right person next to me :-). However, this could sometimes be beaten by a cocktail on a rooftop bar or right on the beach with the feet in the water - cheers ... In the end, I guess I am quite a funny person to be with. Slim, still in good shape (hey - 42 is just the mathematical age - important is that you still feel like being 30, or sometimes even younger ...), quite well looking (at least according to others ..), dark blond hair and blue eyes, nicely dressed in jeans or suit depending on the occasion ... So, why don't you just try me :-)

My Ideal Person Charismatic person looking for no strings attached sexy successful, independent women / couples or feminine TV/TS for a casual physical relationship.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, Nylons !!!!, High Heels !!!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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