I'm a 52 yo divorced mom who is sexually submissive by nature. Since I have my own life and my own mind, I am not submissive when I'm not being used as a cumhole, (I hate saying "in the bedroom" or "outside of the bedroom" because really, I get fucked everywhere someone wants to fuck me - parking lot, car, bondage club, Super Bowl party..) I've been lonely since my divorce, and although I am active in the local BDSM scene, and have lots of opportunities for sex, I don't really "date" within the scene, because I don't want to be "owned" or "collared" because I was already married once. Not doin it again. I am looking for intelligent, educated "friends with benefits" who enjoy rough or dominant fucking, but I love chivalry and I'm extremely turned on by a gentlemen who takes care of his woman (even if she's only his that night) and keeps her safe throughout the adventure, respects her as an equal afterwards, and wants to do other things occasionally - movies, dinner, etc. I'm not looking for anything more than friendship/casual dates with lots of sex. I care little about your age or looks - what attracts me is a sharp mind, humor and the ability to convey your desires verbally in a way that makes me feel like your words fuck me. It's hard to explain but easy to recognize.

My Ideal Person Intelligent, funny, well-read and confident. This is what I am and if you don't match me intellectually, it's boring.