I am a retired widower with plenty of time on my hands that I want to spend with an uninhibited, bisexual, bi-curious, or bi-friendly woman who wants to go out, do stuff, go places, has a randy and adventurous sexuality, and is amenable to swinging with other people. Casual hookups sound like great fun, but a steady, social, and sexual companion is my ideal outcome. A guy can dream, right? I'm also interested in three-way relations with a couple who play TOGETHER, even if the lady partner only wants to watch. I am experienced in and rather enjoy man-on-man sex. I am an orally versatile and anally bottom kind of guy (willing sissy too), so there are many suckie-fuckie and fem-dom options we can explore. Even though I'm not looking for strictly man-on-man encounters, down-to-earth, beefy, mature (60+), somewhat assertive TOP MEN who like to fuck would most likely entice me to fool around. Older, versatile men who like to have their dick sucked are hot too. [B]NOTE: I do not kiss men on the mouth and I am not interested in a boyfriend experience.[/B] If that describes you, contact me because I can host or travel a reasonable distance. Reasonable being defined by my level of horniness at the time ;) Looks and body type play a secondary role in my attraction to someone and hopefully yours too. Lord knows us not-so-handsome guys need lovin' too. The way I see it, Sexy Is as Sexy Does. I live alone and am unencumbered by debt or commitments to anyone else, but I am open to developing a partnered relationship if fate allows. Despite enjoying the receptive role (bottom boi) when I fool around with guys, or [u]sometimes[/u] a submissive role when I'm acting on a kink with a lady, I'm a masculine man. I like shooting pool (8-ball mostly), rock-n-roll, attending concerts and festivals, cold beer, good whiskey, left-handed cigarettes, shooting, camping, and fishing. I identify as a Sigma Male. I never knew there was such a thing before; I just figured I was weird. [SIZE 4]Seven traits of a Sigma male:[/SIZE] 1. A loner, but values others -- I'm often alone and hardly ever lonely, but I do like spending time with kindred folks. 2. A quiet leader -- which way did they go, I'm here to lead them astray. 3. Highly adaptable and flexible -- I'm kinda bendy too 4. Equal treatment -- what's good for the goose is good for the gander. 5. Doesn't need validation from others -- I appreciate encouragement though. 6. A risk-taker -- but not stoopid. 7. Not sociable -- although I can be taken out in public and be quite charming :-)

My Ideal Person I am attracted to smart (not necessarily educated), independent, uninhibited women who have a sense of humor and an imaginative sex drive.
When it comes to the fellas, I have a weakness for beefy, somewhat hairy, TOP men.

I want to develop a friendship and sexual relationship with a woman who likes girls and guys and is interested in MFM, MMF, FFM, FF/MM, MF/MF, or other mutually agreeable combinations of those letters.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Who, Led Zepplin, ELP, Chicago, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, PinkFloyd

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage, Cock Rings, Vacuum Pumps

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Grace Slick, back in the 70s. She was so free-spirited and
sensuous.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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