UPDATE: I have just moved back to Modesto after 5 years in the frozen north and would love to find someone to show me what has changed around here. ;) Im looking for someone to spice up my life at the moment. Someone who is smart funny and willing to push their boundaries sexually.

My Ideal Person I want to explore my Dominant side which is not possible right now. I want some one eager and willing to help who is also discreet. Im also looking for confident women who know what they want sexually and personally.

FYI to all single men I am not gay so please do not IM me or email me its a waste of time.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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