First off, not looking for single males. Sorry boys. We've been away from AFF for awhile so if we've chatted in the past, forgive our memories. If you view our profile and think we might hit it off, please message us. We like to be approached. If you're shy, send us a flirt at least. Hey there. We're TJ and Chris and we're that couple next door you'd never expect. We've been "in the lifestyle" for several years but don't have the opportunity to get out very often so consider ourselves casual swingers. We are full swap but willing to take things slow. We prefer more intimate encounters with friends with benefits over club settings but up for anything. She is tall, fairly fit and sexy with legs for days. He's got the typical dad bod. We both put on a few extra during lock down but have gotten back into fitness in the last few months and hoping it shows. We're both a bit shy and awkward but our personalities shine once we get comfortable. We enjoy the outdoors, hiking, backpacking, camping, boating, kayaking, etc. We also enjoy quiet evenings in watching tv or a movie or just spending time with our . We should also mention, don't expect endless picture sharing from us. We're not shy and have plenty to share and will but that's not why we're here. And don't expect the really good ones until after we've met.

My Ideal Person We really don't have a type other than personality and it's pretty hard to put that in writing. Sense of humor is a must. Don't take life to seriously. Don't be assholes. We prefer full-swap couples or at least a couple that is open to the idea after a few dates. If your girl is into anal it is a huge plus for him. FYI TJ has to be really comfortable with you before going to that step. We don't have a lot of deal breakers outside of personality.
I know it's cliche but we'd really love to find a couple to bond on a friendship level first and foremost. We love the idea of just hanging out with lots of flirting and touching knowing we will all end up naked later.
We also love to hear other peoples kinks. We aren't necessarily looking to participate but love to hear about them. Surprise us but I doubt you'll shock us. Hint - we're not really into bondage, pain, slapping, etc.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
90s grunge rock or hip hop

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Fisting, Open for suggestions

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Sense of humor

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. There are definitely some we would not kick
of bed for eating crackers but just an attraction thing,
nothing to due with their fame.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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