I’m good, giving, and game. You have to be a good partner to have amazing sex. Sex is an exchange of energy. I like experiencing other peoples’ energy. I’m a true pisces and imagination and an adventurous spirit (among other things) are required if you want to engage with me. The fun part for me is the journey, not the destination. It needs to happen organically. Use your mind to arouse, tease, seduce.
I’m open to almost anything as long as it is erotic. I only play with truly sex positive partners. I want a partner that is interested in exploring more so than getting together for sexual gratification. Like learning Tantra or the art of seduction.
Compatibility, chemistry and mutual attraction must all exist for sex to occur. I am a relationship anarchist and I do not practice monogamy. I am completely transparent with my partners. I identify as omnisexual/bisexual. My attraction to men is different than my attraction to women. I am Aromantic with men and demisexual with women. Very rarely do I experience romantic feelings for men. They are purely sexual. With women I need to feel a connection first before sexual attraction occurs. Basically I do not want to cuddle a guy at all, but I want to cuddle a girl before & after sex.
One of the sexiest qualities a person can have is a deep self awareness. Nothing turns me off like misogyny and toxic masculinity. Sex is truly a sensory thing for me. I like to involve all of my senses and immerse myself into the experience. I feel things very deeply and I can be intense, hyper at times. I like to explore, discover, learn, satisfy curiosities. I like fluid partners who switch, and value the responsibilities of being a good partner first.
I vibe well with women of all ages, but men is a different story. I prefer men 38 & under. Most are feminists without realizing it. Some proudly declare it by choice. My generation and older was brought up in a culture where misogyny was the standard and toxic masculinity was the norm. Unless you are a very open minded man who is a feminist, opposes DJT, practices ethical non-monogamy, allows me to be myself and maintain my autonomy, then I’m not interested, AT ALL.
I welcome anyone who wants to teach me Tantra or learn with me. I welcome an intimate relationship with a woman. Unless you are two bisexual men, the answer is No I will not be your unicorn. I am not looking to service your needs or for sex on the fly. I welcome play partnerships with men. One of my play partners would like to invite someone transfeminine to play with us. I enjoy some bdsm practices but I am in no way a part of a lifestyle. I enjoy driving to meet new people. Consent is sexy. Aftercare is greatly appreciated.
My Ideal Person I prefer caucasian guys under 40 who are GGG, sex positive, bisexual, fun, adventurous, open-minded, and available. As for women, I’d love to meet a woman who is warm & kind. Feels like home, but lets me be myself. Friends first. I would love it as a primary relationship but don’t mind if it is a secondary.