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Why I'm Cautious About Who I Meet.  

GoldenGirl00 76F  
101 posts
11/19/2010 8:51 am

Last Read:
2/5/2022 10:24 pm

Why I'm Cautious About Who I Meet.

I've met some select men, I've played with a few couples, and I've met a host of wonderful women. Throughout this entire adventure, the one question I repeatedly get from men is, "Why are you so difficult to meet?"

I've learned the hard way that a lot of men on 99Flavors.com are not nice gentlemen, a lesson my friend Carm once blogged about [blog 2197280]

My latest episode involved BEAVERMAN69692. Luckily, I was not the only woman to have a bad experience and 99Flavors.com came to the rescue:

Dear GoldenGirl00,

Recently, BEAVERMAN69692 interacted with you and we have deactivated his account because he violated our terms of use. We're sorry this happened on 99Flavors.com, and we're working hard to make sure it doesn't happen again.

Our anti-abuse team monitors our site constantly but sometimes a few bad apples escape their scrutiny. If you encounter a member who's behaving inappropriately, please let us know. We'll only send this notice once, but you can be sure that we're taking measures to proactively fight abuse around the clock.

We hope BEAVERMAN69692's conduct doesn't deter you from meeting the other great members of 99Flavors.com. We're glad you're a member and thanks for your participation.

Sincerely,
The 99Flavors.com Team


So, my new rules are unless you are vouched for by women or man I know, willing to meet with my "bodyguard" ( ) whose to be included during playtime, or you're willing to go through a lengthy chat and face-to-face interview process, I not interested. I've lived this long to know that I don't want to be a statistic.

Thank you Carm, James, and 99Flavors.com for helping to keep me safe.
-Beth


resant78 44M  
3326 posts
3/4/2020 10:09 pm

Hi GoldenGirl!

I've seen you on this site from time to time, and I noticed you liked and commented on some of my photos.

Message me if you would like, I will respond back to you (since I'm a standard member) I hope you are doing well and staying awesome! Take care!


8u2Nh4J6 36M

12/23/2012 10:01 pm

haha, I'm glad to be young =)


miklox4 56M
2044 posts
1/11/2012 11:23 am

hello GoldenGirl, great post hun..I too had a bad experience meeting someone. it became a money thing to the point where I thought i was about to get rolled..its a long story and I will be blogging it to expose this person who is here to this day but constantly changing her handle. You think that would be a red flag to site management to at least ask why she has so many handles and why she keeps changing them. I dont understand that many times..once should be sufficient enough wouldnt you think?

Mik


JackHofff 71M  

12/5/2011 3:17 pm

I'd like to meet you with or without Bodyguard, but actually I would prefer a situation like lunch or dinner, somewhere we can actually talk. I've been through enough so that I'd actually like to know you before it goes any further.

There is nothing worse than finishing with sex and having nothing to say, and I don't really want to be there again.

We all aren't looking for just one quick thing!


swelledup5 46M
3 posts
8/6/2011 9:24 am

You bring up a great point. It just makes more sense to take it slow.

Would love to start the getting to know you process. lol

J/k - unless you're interested

Good post


Love2tryit52 64M

6/21/2011 1:18 pm

You understand more than most on this site...it really does come down to experience and gut feeling.

Let the "blogger or suitor" beware!

Stick to your feelings...bet they have worked well so far.

Great gams and tush by the way...wow!


bwithus1 59M/59F  
5 posts
2/9/2011 12:24 pm

Yes we do agree and that is the reason we meet at a public place to make sure its a couple and not a solo man and also to see the chem. matches. we also have female talk in phone at times to take guess work out of the equation.


lcrb 62M

1/5/2011 3:38 pm

Your cautiousness is definetely worth the effort but to my disadvantage because I cannot be verified by your friends or contacts.
I am willing to meet with your bodygaurds to get he opportunity though
You seem educated and refined to the point that I feel that you are worth the effort!
Your New Fan,
Lou


BBWJessicaG 44F
8 posts
12/25/2010 2:49 pm

HI there. Just a standard member, so it won't let me e-mail, etc. Would be interested in getting to know you more...

e-mail me?

Jess


GoldenGirl00 76F  
26 posts
11/19/2010 3:04 pm

And then there are the jackasses that are just jerks:

> 9thick0
> 36 year old Man
> San Jose, California
>
> no not interested in your old ass


horny196364 58M

11/19/2010 10:36 am

love to chat with you sometime


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