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Man, this site has changed.  

ManticoreEye 52M
223 posts
8/22/2021 6:31 pm
Man, this site has changed.


I've been on this site for a long time. About five year under this username, and a few years under a previous username. It's changed.

There used to be quite a few local women on the site, and on IM. Now the majority of people on IM are couples, and Ts outnumber Fs.

The chat rooms used to be full of people (yes, mostly men, but a fair number of women, too). Now when I look at the chat rooms, there'll be one person looking at it...briefly.

I don't know if it's because of a change in the site (costing more points to do anything, etc), or if people are just drifting away from sites like this one.

ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
8/22/2021 6:35 pm

Although I do have to laugh when I check out the 'actively watched bogs" in the corner, and find a blog that has no watchers at all (and sometimes no entries).


Bourre2020 61M

8/22/2021 9:30 pm

?? 'actively watched bogs" ?? I tend not to look at other people's bogs "bog" might not have the same meaning in BC as here in Australia. It means a loo.

Yes, the site is not as good as it used to be. I used to come from the night shift and check out the webcams. There were some really good ones, and one in particular. Now, most are Colombian cam girls with odd "Anglo" names and fake locations for quite a few of them.

My "Global New Activities" are often full of fake profiles and/or stupid comments left by men who can't think with their brain. I love the comments left by fake profiles on fake profiles' photos.

My Gold expires at the beginning of next month. I won't renew, and probably will leave the site before the end of the year.


Wat2dowithme 81F
43 posts
8/22/2021 10:11 pm

I initially signed up for lesbian personals hoping to find what I was looking for and figured I would considering the name of the site. Quickly learned that it links up to 99Flavors.com and everybody can check me out and responding whatever to me. It paid for my membership loyally so I could connect with people and enjoy some fun. But I soon found out there were tons of fake profiles and fake couples messaging and wasting my time. I don't understand how they're not monitoring this nonsense closer because if we can spot a fake within minutes of interaction I don't understand why they can't eliminate this? My membership expired this year and I did not read you and I have no desire to renew because if I have to pay to talk to these lame fakes I might as well pay for a hoe off the street at least I know I get laid!!


moonfish 56M  
466 posts
8/23/2021 12:04 am

I noticed that as well and I have been on here for a long time. Too many fakes nowadays and less people in general. I supposed many have drifted off to other sites. I would just like to know which ones so I can join them!


ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
8/23/2021 12:08 am

    Quoting Bourre2020:
    ?? 'actively watched bogs" ?? I tend not to look at other people's bogs "bog" might not have the same meaning in BC as here in Australia. It means a loo.

    Yes, the site is not as good as it used to be. I used to come from the night shift and check out the webcams. There were some really good ones, and one in particular. Now, most are Colombian cam girls with odd "Anglo" names and fake locations for quite a few of them.

    My "Global New Activities" are often full of fake profiles and/or stupid comments left by men who can't think with their brain. I love the comments left by fake profiles on fake profiles' photos.

    My Gold expires at the beginning of next month. I won't renew, and probably will leave the site before the end of the year.
Ha! Typo on my part.....and I am aware of what it means in Australia and England.


ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
8/23/2021 12:12 am

    Quoting Wat2dowithme:
    I initially signed up for lesbian personals hoping to find what I was looking for and figured I would considering the name of the site. Quickly learned that it links up to 99Flavors.com and everybody can check me out and responding whatever to me. It paid for my membership loyally so I could connect with people and enjoy some fun. But I soon found out there were tons of fake profiles and fake couples messaging and wasting my time. I don't understand how they're not monitoring this nonsense closer because if we can spot a fake within minutes of interaction I don't understand why they can't eliminate this? My membership expired this year and I did not read you and I have no desire to renew because if I have to pay to talk to these lame fakes I might as well pay for a hoe off the street at least I know I get laid!!
I know that 99Flavors.com used to (I don't know if it still does) copy blogs (not bogs) from its various associated sites to others, to make it look like there are more members in each. I was, for example, stunned to find out that my blog also appears, word for word, on LesbianFF, despite my lack of qualifications for said site.


ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
8/23/2021 12:18 am

Well, my blog does appear at "friendfinder-x", a site that I'm not a member of. Sigh.


Saskay88 30F

8/23/2021 12:54 am

It's because you have not met the right woman


Saskay88 30F

8/23/2021 12:55 am

I think it's because you have not met the right woman for you .


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/23/2021 3:07 am

The site has certainly dulled down, that is a fact. Too bad they got rid of the "Interactive" portion of the magazine. That part of the Magazine, and the blogs, is where most people actually communicated with each other.

As far as hooking up goes, that probably ended pretty good around March of 2020.

Looks like lots of bloggers disappeared, too.


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/23/2021 4:53 am

Yes it has. More and more men who don't bother to read my profile or ignore what I have. More and more men who think they are insulting me by calling me bitch/ slut or whatever because I am not interested in them.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


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